Thursday, November 30, 2023

Settling into Routines in SLC – Bearfoot Idea

When you’ve been following alongside on these life updates, you already know that July within the van received somewhat tough. Sick canine and a 5-month outdated child with obvious insomnia had me feeling fairly run down.

In fact all of this occurred as far-off from dwelling as we deliberate to go this summer time – greater than midway up Vancouver Island and a 20+ hour drive again to Utah (which is extra like 40 hours for those who think about all the stops we now have to make for the infant).

Our journey dwelling began from Whistler, BC. It took us a full day of touring to get to the border. Our poor child Herbie had his first tooth pop via that day and was clearly in lots of ache.

Our final day in Whistler earlier than starting our drive dwelling

By the point we reached Washington, he was in full-blown panic mode. Fortunately my shut good friend from faculty lives in Bellingham, so we booked it to her home the place we deliberate to park for the night time. 

Whereas we had been there, I received a message from a BFT Neighborhood Member who requested “why don’t you simply fly dwelling and Ryan can drive the van?”

Fly? On my own with the infant? No approach. That sounded approach too scary. What would I do if I needed to pee (or worse poop…haha) in flight? Or what if he screamed the whole time? What would my seat neighbors consider me breastfeeding? That final query I wasn’t actually anxious about, however nonetheless, all of it felt fairly intimidating. 

After I introduced it as much as Ryan, he thought it was an ideal concept. It doesn’t matter what occurred, two hours on a aircraft with the infant was going to be higher for everybody (together with the infant), than making him endure the lengthy drive dwelling whereas teething. 

My first flight with the infant

Fortunately I didn’t must deliver lots of baggage since I used to be flying straight dwelling. So I checked the carseat after which introduced our stroller, child provider and our diaper bag on the aircraft. I boarded early and received located and crossed my fingers for all the pieces to go easily. 

Exhausted on the airport and able to be dwelling

I heard that feeding throughout take-off and touchdown will help infants clear their ears, in order that’s precisely what I did. The remainder of the time he both slept or stared at my neighbors who all thought he was cute. 

Earlier than I knew it, we landed in Salt Lake Metropolis, and everybody was complimenting him on how effectively he did on the aircraft. 

Phew. That was an enormous reduction to test that mom-adventure off my (bucket)listing. 

Slowing Down and Establishing routines

I’ve by no means been superb at sustaining routines. Even earlier than turning into a blogger after I lived in Washington DC, the one routines I ever actually established had been consuming my morning espresso, exhibiting up for work on time, and usually attending after work pleased hours. 

Within the 9 years I’ve been self-employed, my capability to maintain a routine has solely gotten worse. Being on the go on a regular basis and continuously altering environments makes it fairly troublesome.

As of late, I’ve accepted that I’m probably not a creature of behavior. I attempt to transfer my physique, eat a wholesome plant-based eating regimen, get some work carried out, drink water, and go to mattress at an inexpensive hour…but when these issues don’t occur, I don’t beat myself up over it. 

After we are within the van, each single day is completely different relying on the place we get up, what chores we now have to do, what enjoyable issues we now have deliberate, and the way far we now have to drive. Some mornings are gradual with time to cook dinner a scorching breakfast, learn a ebook and ship some work emails. Different days, we get up, crush a bowl of cereal and hit the street. In fact all of this was pre-baby. 

Now, with Herbie in tow, any small semblance of a routine within the van that we did have went out the window. And in that course of, I began to understand that routines are usually not solely good for a child, they’re completely needed.  

That is what our routine seems like as of late (minus the stay Phish present on the television)

Up till now, Herbie’s naps have taken place on the fly. Whereas we had been within the van, that would have been within the child provider, in a car parking zone, in his automobile seat, or within the stroller. We by no means put him on a schedule, as a result of for one, we didn’t actually understand how. And in addition, we wished him to adapt to our life-style, not the opposite approach round. 

After a month of him waking up each single hour in the midst of the night time, we had been paying the value for having him to function on our phrases.

I’ve come to the conclusion that his horrible night time sleep within the van was on account of him being 1) overtired and a couple of) overstimulated. His lack of napping routine meant that he was by no means napping lengthy sufficient or deep sufficient.

On high of that, he was continuously being thrown into new conditions and environments  – as a result of that’s what van life is all about. In fact he can’t speak to inform me but, however my new-found motherly intuition tells me that this was overwhelming for the little man.

The day earlier than I made a decision to fly dwelling with Herbie after a month of no sleep

I’ve began to understand that touring with our child was for us, not for the infant. I used to be desirous to get again on the street. Again to my “outdated life” the place journey and journey was my high precedence. So I attempted to juggle that with my new precedence of caring for a child, and it was a hell of so much more durable on the infant than I anticipated.

Calling it egocentric is perhaps somewhat too excessive. A lot of our time on the street he was his pleased, smiling self. I’m positive at some point he’ll take a look at the photographs and suppose, “wow that was cool my mother and father did van life with me after I was 4 months outdated.” But, on this present second, he appears that he’d reasonably be dwelling in his acquainted surroundings.

The excellent news is that since we’ve been dwelling in Salt Lake, his night time time sleep has vastly improved. We’re doing our greatest to stay to a nap schedule, and it actually does see to be working.

I nearly really feel like we’re within the new child stage once more, sticking principally round the home to work round his napping routine. He’s nonetheless not one of the best napper, and solely appears to need to nap in a darkish room whereas being held by me after breastfeeding.

Setting him up for napping success signifies that we’ve needed to dial again what we hope to perform in a day. Though I’ve missed getting exterior this month and I fear how not being on the street impacts my capability to create the content material wanted for my weblog and enterprise, I do know that slowing down is what’s greatest for our household proper now. 

Herbie moved to a full-sized crib this month

I do know fairly quickly we might be out climbing and tenting once more, and I’ll be lacking this tremendous particular child part the place we are actually his entire world. 

As we’ve established some new routines for the infant, I’ve additionally tried to get again on monitor with routines of my very own. For the final 6 months, I’ve been letting my physique heal from my being pregnant and c-section and haven’t actually carried out something too strenuous. So in August, I lastly jumped again on my Peloton. I’ve been doing a few of Jess King’s home rides and Dennis Morton jam band rides. Dennis at all times performs Phish songs which will get me tremendous pumped. 

Getting again on my Peloton has made me really feel actually good

I additionally began a mediation problem arrange by good friend Courtney to meditate for 40 days straight in celebration of her fortieth birthday. Like her, I’m additionally turning 40 in September, and that is the right approach for me to ring in a brand new decade. 

I’m loving getting again into an everyday meditation routine

In Different Information

Right here’s just a few different enjoyable issues I received as much as in August.

My mother and bonus-dad got here from Idaho to go to us for just a few days. We took them as much as Alta to see the colourful wildflower bloom, adopted by lunch our favourite vegan restaurant known as Candy Hazel. We spent the remainder of the weekend enjoyable at dwelling, so they might spend some high quality time with Herbie.

my mother and I at Alta
The blooms had been attractive up at Alta this 12 months

Subsequent, our little man began solids this month. We’ve been making his child meals at dwelling utilizing the child meals maker we received as a present. The most important hit to this point has been beets with candy potato, apple, chia seeds, and pumpkin seeds. Since we observe a plant-based eating regimen and are elevating Herbie this manner too, we’re utilizing the ideas within the Plant-Primarily based Juniors cookbook to ensure he’s getting all the pieces he wants.

I’ve additionally been having enjoyable within the kitchen making treats for Ryan and I. A brand new favourite snack I whipped up are these no-bake power bites made with peanut butter, flax seed, oats, chia, coconut, chocolate chips and honey. These would make a nice snack to tackle the path.

Lastly, we’re so fortunate right here in Salt Lake to have a bunch of pals who’re unimaginable musicians. They play usually round city and on the ski areas, making it straightforward for us to get out and luxuriate in some stay music.

This month our pals Meandercat performed at Brighton and The Pour performed at Snowbird. We took Herbie up there together with his noise cancelling headphones so we may all boogie down.

Having fun with Meandercat play at Brighton Ski Space

Okay that’s it for August! Thanks for maintaining with me and these updates. I actually take pleasure in writing them and sharing a extra private aspect of my life. I’ll have some thrilling issues to share in September, so keep tuned!

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